In today’s fast-paced world many individuals find themselves with a sense of something missing from their lives. This feeling often sparks an intense desire for self-discovery & for some, this quest for fulfillment may lead them to explore their sexuality, seeking to understand themselves better & embrace a fuller sense of identity. The feeling of incompleteness or dissatisfaction in a bedroom (or out) is not uncommon. Life’s mundane routine & societal expectations can suppress one’s desires & curiosities.
As individuals seek deeper sexual gratification, the brave ones begin to question their current experiences, examining their sexual orientation, preferences and experiences (or lack of) which often leads to newly found kinks & fetishes.
What is kink?
Kink encompasses a broad spectrum of sexual practices beyond conventional heterosexual intercourse primarily focused on procreation.
Kink ranges from fetishes & role-playing to BDSM (Bondage I Discipline I Dominance I Submission I Sadism I Masochism). It offers an incredible opportunity to learn more about the human body, our hidden controversial desires & frequently creates what is an often unplanned solid foundation for a long fulfilled committed partnership.
So where should you start?
Understanding your own desires, boundaries, and curiosities is the first step! Reflecting on past experiences, what drove you wild or perhaps what left you deflated with dissatisfaction.
Learning about different sexual orientations, sexual practices, kinks & fetishes. Resources like books, workshops, and discussions with knowledgeable individuals can offer guidance & open new perspectives.
Whether you are in a relationship or on a solo exploration, open & honest communication with your sexual partner is key & one must be prepared for potential findings that might not align with your personal desires or needs.
Should you find you & your partner are on different sides of the coin some hard questions might need to be asked to determine if you both are in fact happy to stay in a sexually unsatisfied partnership?
Are you or your partner willing to sacrifice your own sexual beliefs just to keep the peace at home or are you open to getting out of your comfort zone in order to safeguard your relationship & who knows, maybe discover a new euphoric you!?
If you are devoted to your relationship but feel like you have arrived at a crossroads with no resolution, seeking support from couples therapists or counsellors specializing in sexuality & relationships can provide a safe structured & supportive environment for you & your partner to work through your personal desires.
For those new to the Lifestyle, kink often has a misconception of all or nothing. Kinks and fetishes don’t always mean whips, chains, torture & humiliation. The world of kink is very broad & there is something for everyone. From mellow cutesy roleplays such as Pet play to complex multi-faceted BDSM categories such as Sadomasochism and absolutely everything in between.
Begin with small, manageable explorations of kink. Ensure you and your sexual partner both understand each other’s limitations & never engage in play with someone who doesn’t respect your wishes or take the play seriously!
Sexual pleasure is hard wired in everyone’s psyche and as such can be emotionally as well as physically harmful if not practiced in a safe consensual manner. Depending on which categories you would like to try, it might be necessary to set some ground rules such as agreements around boundaries & safe words.
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